As we grow up, we observe our parents are already the older. Time goes by, and we have know idea what will happen in the future. That’s why we should learn to say I LOVE YOU to our parents.
But usually, lines are pure. We wish our parents can be happier. So why don’t we buy something for them when expressing our true feelings? The accessories, clothes, shoes, everything will be fine. The Lolita website also and some suitable accessories for them. ......
Motherly love by its very nature is unconditional. Mother loves the newborn infant because it is her child, not because the child has fulfilled any specific condition, or lived up to any specific expectation. Uconditional love corresponds in one of the deepest longing, not only of the child, but of every human being; on the other hand, to be loved because of one’s merit, because one deserves it, always leaves doubt: maybe I did not please the person whom I want to love me, maybe this or that--there is always a fear that love could disappear.
Furthermore, “deserved” love easily leaves a bitter felling that one is not loved for oneself, that one is loved only because one pleases, that one is, in the last analysis, not loves at all but used. No wonder that we all cling to the longing for motherly love, as children and also as adults.
The relationship to father is quite different. Mother is the home we come from, she is nature, soil, the ocean; father does not represent any such natural home. He has litter connection with the child in the first years of his life, and his importance for the child in this early period cannot be compared with that of mother. But while father does not represent the natural world, he represents the other pole of human existence; the world of thought, of man-made things, of law and order, of discipling, of travel and adventure.
Fatherly love is conditional love. Its principle is “I love you because you fulfill my expectations, because you do our duty, because you are like me.”
Whatever love is, motherly and fatherly love has played a important role in our life. We have grow up under the protection of them. Now, they are getting older and older. We suggest we can buy something for them to show our love and learn to cherish them by actions.
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